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When to Introduce a Bottle to a Breastfed Baby [Mom’s Guide]

When to Introduce a Bottle to a Breastfed Baby [Mom’s Guide]

When navigating the world of breastfeeding, I often get asked when to introduce a bottle into the mix.

Understanding the right time and techniques when introducing a bottle to your previously breastfed baby can be a game-changer. It offers more flexibility, support, and the opportunity for others to bond with your little one.

Today, we’ll uncover critical factors and equip you with the necessary knowledge to MAKE BOTTLE FEEDING EASIER for you and your little one!

When to Introduce Bottle to Breastfed Baby

Ready to finally let your baby bottle feed? Let’s get started!

When to Start Bottle Feeding

When to Start Bottle Feeding

When starting to bottle feed, experts recommend waiting until breastfeeding is well established before introducing a bottle.

This usually happens around 3 to 4 weeks after birth.

Why is this important? It’s all about avoiding something called “nipple confusion.” It happens when babies have trouble distinguishing between breastfeeding and bottle feeding.

It can lead to fussiness and feeding difficulties. So, by dedicating some time to breastfeeding your little one, you’re setting the stage for a SMOOTHER TRANSITION to bottle feeding down the line.

If needed, you can do this in tandem with transitioning from breastmilk to formula. To help the switch become even smoother, choosing the best formula and mixing it with breast milk is a proven strategy.

You can still bottle feed your breast milk if this is your preferred sustenance or if your baby shows signs that they don’t take formula well.

It’s also okay to buy breast milk if you have trouble producing your own. Just be mindful of breast milk’s shelf life to keep your baby’s feeding sessions safe and healthy!

How Often Should You Bottle Feed?

How Often Should You Bottle Feed

Unfortunately, there’s no single answer that will work for every baby. You must find the sweet spot based on their age and individual needs.

During the early weeks, newborns gobble up milk around 8 to 12 times a day. That’s a lot of feeding, but they need that much to grow and develop properly!

On average, during that first month, babies typically down about 2 to 3 ounces of milk per feeding.

As your baby grows, you’ll notice a change. They’ll start eating less frequently, but the amount per feeding will increase.

Remember, every baby is different, so PAY ATTENTION to their hunger cues. Watch out for signs like rooting*, lip-smacking, or sucking motions.

For newborn bottle feeding, try introducing the bottle once a day, then gradually increasing the frequency. At some point, babies will start holding the bottle on their own too!

*NOTE: Rooting is a survival instinct of babies where if you nudge their cheek or a corner of their mouth with a finger or a nipple, they will turn towards it to nurse.

Best Approaches for First-Time Bottle Feeding

Best Approaches for First-Time Bottle Feeding

Embarking on your first bottle-feeding experience can be an arduous but rewarding journey! I’ll be sharing some valuable tips below for a positive and smooth transition.

1) Selecting the Right Bottle and Nipple Is Crucial.

Look for a bottle that mimics the shape and flow of a breast to reduce the chances of nipple confusion and give your baby a more comfortable feeding experience.

Start with a nipple that offers a SLOW FLOW because it matches the pace of breastfeeding and allows your little one to feed at their own rhythm.

Watch out if your baby leaks milk while bottle feeding. It may mean the nipple lets the milk out too fast for the baby to properly consume.

2) Involving Both Parents in the Process Is a Key Aspect.

It’s a beautiful way to foster connections and create memorable moments as a family.

It can strengthen the bond between a family by offering shared responsibility and meaningful opportunities to the non-breastfeeding parent to engage in feeding and bonding experiences.

3) Paced Feeding Is an Essential Technique.

Hold the bottle slightly horizontally to allow your baby to control the milk flow. This closely imitates the natural feeding pattern of breastfeeding.

Pause periodically and OBSERVE your baby’s hunger or fullness cues to help them feed at their own pace. For example, if they squirm or cry when bottle feeding, you need to respond accordingly.

Paced feeding is all about following their lead and nurturing their self-regulation skills.

4) Seek Support.

No bottle-feeding journey is perfect, so if you encounter any challenges or have concerns during the transition, there’s no shame in asking for help!

Reach out to fellow moms, a lactation consultant, or a healthcare provider who can provide personalized guidance and address any questions or difficulties you may have.

Their expertise and reassurance can make a significant difference in your journey.

Remember, THERE IS NO ONE-SIZE-FITS-ALL APPROACH to bottle feeding, as every baby is unique.

Tips and Tricks for Bottle Refusal

Tips and Tricks for Bottle Refusal

There are many reasons why your baby won’t take the bottle, and it may take some trial and error to find the right way to introduce it.

Here are some helpful and productive ways to tackle bottle refusal:

  1. Be patient and persistent. First, adjust your mindset going into this change if it’s not happening as quickly as you’d like. It’s normal for babies to resist the bottle, especially if they’re used to breastfeeding. So stay calm, patient, and consistent in your efforts. Give your baby time to adjust to this new feeding method.
  2. Time it right. Offer the bottle when your baby is calm and not overly hungry. Introducing the bottle when your baby is too hungry or fussy can make them even more resistant. Create a relaxed and comfortable environment for a positive feeding experience.
  3. Try different bottle nipples. Babies can have preferences regarding the shape, texture, and flow of a nipple. Experiment with different types until you find the one that your baby prefers. It might take a few tries to find a nipple that closely resembles breastfeeding but keep at it!

What to Do When Baby Refuses a Bottle After Several Attempts

What to Do When Baby Refuses a Bottle After Several Attempts

If your baby is persistent in refusing the bottle, you might want to consider the following strategies:

Offer the Bottle To a Different Caregiver

Babies are smarter than we think. Often, they develop a strong association between the mother and breastfeeding. This can make it challenging for them to accept a bottle from her.

To create a distinct experience, have another caregiver* (like the father) offer the bottle instead. This change in the feeding routine may help your baby accept the bottle more easily.

Over time, as your baby becomes more used to this way of nursing, the breastfeeding mother can slowly be reintroduced as someone who bottle-feeds as well.

*NOTE: If the other caregiver doesn’t have access to formula or breast milk, they can feed the baby dairy-based milk if the baby is one year or older and has no dairy sensitivities or plant-based milk if they are younger or allergic.

Gradual Transition

A slow but progressive approach may be what your baby needs to start bottle feeding properly!

Begin by offering a bottle with a small amount of breast milk while continuing to breastfeed. This allows your baby to get accustomed to the bottle slowly but surely.

Then, you can gradually INCREASE the amount of milk in the bottle as they become more familiar and comfortable until they can complete their feeding sessions with a bottle.

Over time, even the most resistant of babies can fall asleep while bottle feeding. Slow and steady wins the race, so just be patient!

Seek Professional Guidance

This bears repeating because I know that moms often feel guilty when they can’t naturally hack any aspect of childcare.

If all else fails despite your best efforts, contacting a lactation consultant or healthcare provider is a valuable and fantastic option.

They can evaluate the situation, offer advice TAILORED to your concerns, and address underlying issues contributing to the persistent refusal.

Important Reminders When Bottle Feeding

Important Reminders When Bottle Feeding

When introducing bottle feeding, whether it comes easy or not, keep these in mind for a safe and fulfilling journey for you and your precious kids:

1) Ensure Proper Positioning and Support.

Hold your baby in a semi-upright position while feeding and keep their head slightly elevated. This helps prevent choking and allows them to swallow easier.

Also, supporting their head and neck with your hand or arm provides stability and comfort throughout the feeding session.

Propping the bottle with pillows or other objects is a NO-NO as it can lead to risks of choking, overfeeding, and even ear infections.

When you actively hold and ENGAGE WITH YOUR BABY during bottle feeding, you can maintain a safer and more nurturing feeding experience.

It allows you to monitor their cues closely, adjust the flow as needed, and establish a strong bond during feeding time (more on this below)!

2) Pay Close Attention to Your Baby’s Feeding Cues.

Watch for signs that indicate hunger, such as lip smacking, sucking motions, or putting hands to their mouth. These cues tell you that your little one is ready to eat.

 On the other hand, your baby may turn away from the bottle, close their mouth, or slow down on sucking. These suggest that they are satisfied and no longer hungry.

It’s essential to know your baby’s cues. DON’T FORCE THEM to finish a bottle if they show signs of being full. Babies have their own appetites, and how much they need at each feeding may vary.

You can ensure a positive feeding experience that follows your baby’s needs and preferences by tuning in to their cues and responding accordingly.

3) Bottle Hygiene Is Essential for Your Baby’s Health and Safety.

Before each use, clean and sanitize the bottles, nipples, and any other feeding equipment THOROUGHLY. You can use hot, soapy water or a dishwasher for proper sanitation.

Mind all the nooks and crannies of your baby bottles and nipples! Milk residue can build up in these and become a breeding ground for nasty bacteria.

Additionally, inspect the bottles for any signs of wear or damage. Cracks, discoloration, or weakened materials can compromise the cleanliness and safety of the bottle.

If you notice any issues, REPLACE the bottle and nipple immediately. Follow these hygiene practices to reduce the risk of illness or infection during feeding sessions!

4) Practice Responsive Feeding.

Bottle feeding is not solely about providing nourishment. Instead, it’s an opportunity for bonding and emotional connection with your baby.

During feeding, maintain eye contact with your little one, speak softly, and engage with them. Offer gentle touches and CREATE A CALM ENVIRONMENT to help them feel secure and supported.

By responding to your baby’s hunger cues or need for comfort, you create a nurturing atmosphere and establish a positive relationship with them.

This approach fosters their physical well-being and emotional development by strengthening your bond and promoting a sense of trust and connection.

Remember that bottle feeding is a special time to connect, which nurtures you and your little one.

By practicing responsive feeding, you are nourishing your baby’s body and nurturing their heart and mind.


Got more questions on introducing a bottle to a breastfed baby? Here’s some additional information:

Is It Ok to Breastfeed and Bottle Feed a Newborn?

Yes, it is perfectly fine to combine both feeding methods! Breastfeeding is ideal, but there are situations where bottle feeding is necessary or preferred.

Still, experts recommend establishing a good breastfeeding relationship before introducing a bottle.

Can You Give a Breastfed Baby a Bottle of Formula Milk at Night?

Of course you can! It’s pretty common for parents to supplement breastfeeding with formula, especially during nighttime feedings.

This can provide flexibility and allow other caretakers to participate in feeding duties.

Can a Baby Reject the Breast After Bottle Feeding?

This is possible for various reasons. Some babies develop nipple confusion or simply prefer the bottle for its ease.

If you want to avoid this, introduce bottle feeding in ways that minimize nipple confusion and maintain breastfeeding as the PRIMARY feeding method.

If a baby starts rejecting the breast, consulting an experienced mom or a professional can help address the issue and support successful breastfeeding.


In conclusion, you must consider factors such as breastfeeding establishment and your little one’s readiness before introducing the bottle to a breastfeeding baby.

Have patience and take on the task gradually. Don’t hesitate to seek support if you need it.

Finding the right balance between breastfeeding and bottle feeding can provide flexibility, convenience, and a positive feeding experience for you and your baby.

Good luck!

Sky Bustillo
Sky Bustillo

Hi, I’m Sky!
As a Filipina in her mid-20s, a sister to young ones, and a tita to my nieces and nephews, I somehow share the same sentiment as other parents. I have a growing aspiration of becoming a mom someday!
But there also comes a worry that you won’t be able to give the best to your children, especially with the food they eat, the products they use, and the new habits and hobbies we introduce to them.
Your kid’s safety and welfare are your top priority, that’s why I always make it to a point to learn from the stories and experiences of other moms.
It’s a delight to share what I learned and know to help the moms close to my heart, and this time, I’m writing to relay advice to you from the insights of other moms and my experience around kids, too.
I’d love to be a part of your journey, and I hope you find these tips and tricks helpful for you and your young one!